The Empress and the Courage to Be “Unproductive”

The Empress Archetype and Relaxation as a Way to Nurture Creativity.

In my Empress affirmation poster, I paired her image with the words:

Nurture Creativity

This may be one of the most misunderstood instructions in the entire Tarot.

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Because most of us have been trained to believe that creativity comes from effort. From discipline. From pushing harder. From sitting at the desk and refusing to get up until something happens.

That approach belongs to The Emperor.

The Empress operates differently.

She does not force growth.

She allows it.

She creates the conditions in which growth becomes inevitable.

Creativity Cannot Be Forced

Every creative person eventually encounters this paradox.

The harder you try to force creativity, the more it retreats.

You sit at your desk, determined to produce something brilliant. Hours pass. Nothing happens. Your mind feels like dry soil.

And then, days later—while taking a walk, washing dishes, or doing something completely unrelated—an idea appears effortlessly.

It arrives whole.

Not constructed, but received.

Albert Einstein understood this phenomenon. When asked how he discovered the theory of relativity, he didn’t describe grinding intellectual labor. He said simply:

“It just dropped in while I was playing the piano.”

He wasn’t forcing the insight.

He was allowing it.

This is Empress energy.

The Forgotten Value of Leisure

The philosopher Josef Pieper wrote a remarkable book titled Leisure as the Basis of Culture. In it, he argues that leisure is not the absence of productivity, but its foundation.

Leisure, in its true sense, is not laziness in the modern, pejorative sense. It is a state of receptive openness.

It is the willingness to stop forcing.

Pieper observed that culture itself—art, philosophy, music, science—arises not from frantic effort, but from spaces of inward stillness.

When we allow ourselves to be idle, something deeper begins to move.

The soil replenishes itself.

Modern society often treats leisure as wasteful. We are taught that our worth is tied to constant activity. But creativity obeys older, quieter laws.

Seeds do not grow faster because you stare at them.

They grow because the conditions are right.

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Julia Cameron and the Act of Creative Nurturing

Julia Cameron’s The Artist’s Way remains one of the most practical and psychologically accurate guides to creativity ever written.

Her central insight is simple: creativity must be nurtured.

Not commanded.

She encourages practices like morning pages and artist dates—not to produce finished work, but to create space for the creative self to emerge naturally.

These practices are Empress practices.

They say to the creative mind:

You are safe here.

You are allowed to emerge in your own time.

And when that safety is present, creativity begins to flow again.

The Courage to Be “Lazy”

This is perhaps the most radical lesson of The Empress.

You must allow yourself to be, at times, unproductive.

Not because you are weak.

But because you are cultivating fertility.

What appears to be inactivity is often incubation.

Beneath the surface, ideas are forming. Connections are being made. Your subconscious is doing its work.

If you constantly demand output, you exhaust the system that produces it.

The Empress reminds us that rest is not the opposite of creation.

It is part of creation.

Nurture Creativity

The Empress does not shout. She does not command. She invites.

She reminds us that creativity is not a machine, but a living process.

It responds to kindness.

It responds to patience.

It responds to nourishment.

When you stop trying to force creativity and begin nurturing it instead, something remarkable happens.

Ideas begin to arrive again.

Quietly.

Effortlessly.

Like seeds finding their way toward the light.

So when The Empress appears in your readings—or quietly makes herself known in your life—it is not a signal to push harder. It is an invitation to soften. She asks you to step out of the mentality of force and into the rhythm of cultivation. To rest without guilt. To follow your curiosity. To trust that creativity, like all living things, emerges when it is nourished rather than commanded.

 She reminds you that you are not a machine designed for constant output, but a garden capable of extraordinary growth. Your task is not to force the flowers to bloom, but to tend the soil and allow them to emerge in their own time.

The Influence of The Hierophant

The Influence of The Hierophant Card When Paired With Other Major Arcana, Including Definitions for Each Pairing.

In the absence of a regular blog post for today, I’d like to offer a reference chart detailing the influence of The Hierophant when paired with the other cards of the Major Arcana.

The Hierophant represents tradition, spiritual authority, teaching, sacred structures, and shared belief systems. When this card appears, it often asks:

• What do you believe?

• Where did those beliefs come from?

• Are you conforming… or consciously committing?

Please feel free to print this and use it as a quick reference in your readings. Or, if you prefer, you can download a PDF version here. Just click the link and, when it opens, select Print from your browser menu.

The Hierophant + The Fool

A new spiritual path begins; stepping into tradition with fresh eyes.

Reversed: Rebellion without reflection; rejecting structure simply to avoid commitment.

The Hierophant + The Magician

Teaching what you know; manifesting through spiritual principles.

Reversed: Manipulating belief systems; using doctrine for personal gain.

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The Hierophant + The High Priestess

Outer tradition meets inner knowing; balancing doctrine with intuition.

Reversed: Conflict between personal truth and institutional belief.

The Hierophant + The Empress

Sacred nurturing; honoring family or cultural traditions around love and creativity.

Reversed: Restrictive roles around gender, parenting, or creative expression.

The Hierophant + The Emperor

Institutional authority; law, governance, or structured religion.

Reversed: Oppressive systems; authoritarian belief structures.

The Hierophant + The Lovers

Commitment blessed by tradition; marriage, vows, sacred partnership.

Reversed: Choosing love outside of conventional expectations.

The Hierophant + The Chariot

Driving forward with faith; disciplined spiritual progress.

Reversed: Dogmatic certainty; forcing beliefs onto others.

The Hierophant + Strength

Moral courage; gentle adherence to deeply held values.

Reversed: Internal conflict between instinct and conditioning.

The Hierophant + The Hermit

Spiritual teacher and spiritual seeker; mentorship or formal study.

Reversed: Breaking away from tradition to seek personal truth.

The Hierophant + Wheel of Fortune

Destined encounters with teachers or belief systems.

Reversed: Clinging to outdated doctrines during change.

The Hierophant + Justice

Ethical accountability; living in alignment with stated values.

Reversed: Hypocrisy; preaching principles not practiced.

The Hierophant + The Hanged Man

Spiritual surrender; re-evaluating long-held beliefs.

Reversed: Martyrdom rooted in rigid ideology.

The Hierophant + Death

Transformation of belief systems; shedding old doctrines.

Reversed: Fear of spiritual evolution; resisting theological change.

The Hierophant + Temperance

Balanced faith; integrating different traditions harmoniously.

Reversed: Spiritual confusion; incompatible belief blending.

The Hierophant + The Devil

Religious guilt; toxic conditioning; spiritual bondage.

Reversed: Breaking free from oppressive belief systems.

The Hierophant + The Tower

Collapse of institutional structures; crisis of faith.

Reversed: Quiet deconstruction of long-held doctrines.

The Hierophant + The Star

Renewed faith; spiritual hope; inspired teaching.

Reversed: Disillusionment with organized belief systems.

The Hierophant + The Moon

Hidden doctrines; subconscious conditioning; fear-based teachings.

Reversed: Seeing through illusion; questioning inherited fears.

The Hierophant + The Sun

Joyful faith; spiritual clarity; enlightened tradition.

Reversed: Childlike rebellion against structure without understanding.

The Hierophant + Judgment

Spiritual awakening; answering a higher calling within tradition.

Reversed: Rejecting external authority to follow inner calling.

The Hierophant + The World

Completion of a spiritual cycle; mastery within a tradition.

Reversed: Feeling confined by cultural or institutional identity.

The High Priestess: What It Really Means to Trust Your Intuition

The High Priestess Archetype and learning to trust our intuition.

In my High Priestess affirmation poster, I chose the phrase:

“Trust Your Intuition.”

It sounds simple. Almost obvious.

And yet it’s one of the most misunderstood instructions in the entire Tarot.

We say things like:

“I have a feeling . .

“I just have a hunch . . .”

“I’m getting bad vibes about this . . .”

All human beings have intuition — some more than others. Some people sneer at it as a primitive, pseudo-mystical leftover from a less scientific age. Others practically swim in it, using it as their primary guide through life.

Most of us fall somewhere in the middle.

We occasionally get flashes of clarity about which path to take and which to avoid. But most of the time we default to logic. We try to predict outcomes. We use our brains rather than our hearts.

And then sometimes — usually in hindsight — we think:

“Damn, I knew better . . .”

So it’s worth asking:

What is intuition… and what is it not?

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It’s Not Fear

One of the biggest confusions we have is mixing intuition up with the limbic system — the ancient part of the brain responsible for fight-or-flight.

That system exists to keep us alive. It detects threat. It reacts instantly.

It was what warned our ancestors that something dangerous was hiding in the trees. We experience it today as:

  • The hairs rising on the back of our neck
  • A sudden jolt of anxiety
  • The feeling that someone is watching us

That reaction can feel mysterious. But it isn’t mystical. It’s biological.

True intuition does not trigger fight-or-flight.

It doesn’t flood the body with adrenaline. It doesn’t tighten the chest.

Real intuition is calm.

It arrives quietly, with a sense of understanding. It clarifies rather than agitates. Instead of panic, it brings steadiness — a subtle reassurance that says:

“This is right – you’ll be okay.”


It’s Not Rapid-Fire Prediction

The brain is constantly predicting the future based on the past.

When we encounter a new situation, the mind instantly searches its archives for similar experiences. It matches patterns, runs comparisons, and projects possible outcomes — all in a fraction of a second.

We’re mostly unaware this is happening.

So when we say we “have a feeling” about someone, what we often have is a memory.

If we once had a terrible experience with a brunette woman wearing purple socks, we may feel wary of a new brunette wearing purple socks. We call that a vibe.

It isn’t.

Some people process these patterns so quickly that it seems magical. Certain personality types — INFJs and INFPs, for example — are especially skilled at rapid, intuitive-seeming synthesis.

But that process is still rooted in past data.

True intuition is different.

It is not logical.

It is not based on memory.

It may have absolutely nothing to do with what has happened before.

It is a clear message about the present moment — even when there’s no obvious reason you should understand what you understand.


It’s Not Fragmented

You may have met highly sensitive or empathic people whose lives are chaotic.

On the surface, that seems contradictory. If they absorb more information than most, shouldn’t they navigate life more easily?

Not necessarily.

When someone takes in too much external input without discernment, they can lose track of what belongs to them and what belongs to others.

If they’re near someone who is anxious, they become anxious. If they’re around anger, they internalize anger.

Soon they feel as if they’re having five contradictory “intuitions” at once.

But intuition does not contradict itself.

It does not conduct committee meetings in your head.

It does not present twelve equally compelling paths and demand that you choose one immediately.

True intuition is singular.

It points.

It does not debate.


Clear, Calm, and Quietly Joyful

Perhaps the greatest hallmark of genuine intuition is that it brings relief.

It removes doubt.

It dissolves mental noise.

It doesn’t shout. It doesn’t demand. It doesn’t come with fireworks.

It simply settles into you and says:

“Yes, this is it.”

And when it does, there is often a subtle happiness attached to it — not excitement, not mania — but a deep rightness.

That is the High Priestess.

She does not force reality.

She does not argue.

She does not panic.

She knows.

And when that knowing arrives within you, the work is not to question it endlessly — it is to honor it.

That is what “Trust Your Intuition” really means.


The Magician — Become Your Magic

Integrating the Magician archetype into our lives.

It’s a foundational premise of the Tarot that we are all our own Magicians.

We create our lives through imagination, intention, will, and attention. The tools are already on the table. The energy is already within us. We shouldn’t need gurus, occult masters, or spiritual middlemen to “activate” anything for us — because our creative power is our birthright.

So why do so many of us wander in circles?

Why do we feel disconnected from our own magic?

Why do we feel driven by outside forces instead of guided by our internal compass?

If we want to fully integrate the Magician archetype into our lives, it may help to examine what the Magician is not.

Because sometimes clarity comes from contrast.

The Magician Isn’t Self-Doubt Disguised as Humility

When we look at the traditional Magician card, we see the tools laid out clearly: the cup, the sword, the pentacle, and the wand. Nothing is missing.

The problem is not a lack of tools. The problem is the refusal to pick them up.

How many books go unwritten because someone thinks, “Who am I to write a book?”

How many paintings never see the light of day because someone thinks, “I didn’t go to art school.”

Self-doubt often masquerades as humility. It sounds modest. It sounds careful. It even sounds wise.

But it’s usually fear.

The Magician does not deny his gifts. He uses them.

Every one of us has talents, perspectives, experiences, and insights that no one else on the planet possesses in exactly the same configuration. The moment we stop apologizing for that uniqueness and begin using it, we step into our magic.

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The Magician Isn’t Scattered Energy

The Magician is focused intention.

One hand points to heaven. One hand points to earth. Energy flows through him with direction and clarity.

This doesn’t mean we can’t have many interests. It means we choose what matters most right now — and we concentrate.

If you want to be a writer, write daily.

If you want to open a nursery, start gathering pots and soil.

If you want to transform your life, choose one consistent action and repeat it.

Scattered energy feels busy. Focused energy creates results.

The Magician understands hierarchy. He knows what matters today — and he pours his will into that.

The Magician Isn’t Manipulation

The Magician archetype is often misunderstood as charm, persuasion, or cleverness.

But true magic isn’t about bending others to your will.

Manipulation says, “I can’t do this on my own, so I need to control the room.”

The authentic Magician says, “I am aligned. I will act. And the world will respond accordingly.”

There’s a profound difference between influence and integrity.

The Magician’s power comes from alignment — not trickery.

The Magician Isn’t Performance Instead of Authenticity

There are two kinds of magicians in the world: the illusionist and the integrated.

The stage magician dazzles. Distracts. Redirects attention. Pulls rabbits from hats.

The integrated Magician is quieter.

He doesn’t need to perform spirituality. He doesn’t need to announce his power. He doesn’t need to posture as enlightened.

He simply acts in alignment with who he is.

In our modern world, it’s easy to confuse visibility with mastery. A quick scroll through social media will reveal countless self-proclaimed “masters” selling certainty.

The true Magician doesn’t need the spotlight.

His magic works because it is authentic.

The Magician Isn’t Unintegrated Knowledge

There’s an old Sufi saying: You can load a donkey down with holy books, but it won’t make him wise.

The same applies to spiritual study.

You can memorize Tarot definitions, chakra systems, Hermetic principles, and mystical philosophies. But until those teachings become embodied, they remain decoration.

The Magician integrates.

He doesn’t just study the tools — he uses them.

He doesn’t just read about transformation — he practices it.

He doesn’t just speak about power — he becomes it.

Knowledge becomes magic when it moves from concept to action.

Become Your Magic

So what is The Magician, then?

He is integration.

He is the moment you realize the tools have been there all along.

He is the decision to stop waiting for permission.

He is the willingness to focus your energy.

He is the courage to act authentically.

He is the discipline to practice what you claim to believe.

The wand raised to heaven and the hand pointing to earth symbolize alignment — vision grounded in action. Inspiration translated into reality.

When we stop outsourcing our power — to gurus, critics, algorithms, trends, or fear — we begin to feel that alignment inside ourselves.

We stop asking, “Who am I to do this?”

And we begin asking, “Why not me?”

The real magic was never in the costume.

It was in the willingness to use what you already possess.

That’s why my affirmation for this card is:

Become Your Magic.

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Not find it.

Not earn it.

Not prove it.

Become it.

Because the tools are already on the table.

The only question left is:

Will you pick them up?

The Fool: Be in the Flow

The Fool card as the archetype of the Flow State.

Most people misunderstand The Fool.

They think he’s reckless. Naïve. Careless. About to step off a cliff because he doesn’t know any better.

But The Fool is not stupidity.

The Fool is original harmony.

The Soul in Its First Breath

The Fool represents the new Soul in the world. He carries the energy closest to what we had when we first incarnated — before cynicism, before conditioning, before we learned how to overthink everything.

In that original state, we are in harmony with our environment. Our perception is clear. Our energy hums. We are not fighting life. We are participating in it.

That’s why, when I designed my Tarot affirmation for The Fool, I chose the phrase: Be in the Flow.

Available as a 13 X 19 inch poster on my Etsy shop.

The Fool doesn’t force the river. He walks with it.

What Happens When We’re in the Flow?

Two remarkable things tend to show up when we’re in this state:

Synchronicity and serendipity.

Synchronicity occurs when your internal mental and emotional state aligns so cleanly with the outer world that meaningful coincidences begin to appear.

You’re thinking about needing a new job. A gust of wind blows a newspaper to your feet. The classified section is open. Someone has circled a listing that’s strangely perfect for you.

That’s synchronicity — the outer world answering an inner alignment.

Serendipity is its carefree cousin. It’s good fortune arriving without an obvious causal chain. It’s stumbling into opportunity. It’s finding gold doubloons tucked inside a thrift-store chest of drawers.

Synchronicity feels meaningful.

Serendipity feels lucky.

Both tend to emerge when we stop strangling life with effort.

Wu Wei and the Zero

The Fool’s number is zero.

Zero is potential. Zero is openness. Zero is the circle that contains everything.

In Taoist philosophy, there’s a concept called Wu Wei, which means “effortless action.” It’s not laziness. It’s not passivity. It’s action that arises from alignment rather than strain.

Instead of striving against the current, we move with it.

The more we harmonize with life’s rhythms, the easier life becomes. Paradoxically, we accomplish more by forcing less. When we loosen our grip, synchronicity and serendipity begin to move.

It can feel as if the Universe starts supplying what we need the moment we stop demanding it.

The symbol of Wu Wei is the Enso — a single open circle. It looks suspiciously like a Zero.

It looks suspiciously like The Fool.

The Trick of the Dialogue

Here’s the delicate part.

Flow is not a switch you flip.

Researchers who study the flow state consistently find that it emerges when we are relaxed, engaged, playful, and open. It does not emerge when we are clenched, controlling, or desperately trying to optimize ourselves.

You don’t command The Fool state.

You invite it.

And this is where the dialogue begins.

When we relax and allow life to surprise us, we send a subtle signal:

“Okay. Show me what you’ve got.”

That’s when things begin to move.

The Universe does not respond well to micromanagement.

The Pink Elephant Problem

Of course, we immediately run into a paradox.

You cannot work very, very hard at not working hard.

You cannot become extremely serious about not being serious.

Try this: do not think about a pink elephant with purple polka dots.

Exactly.

The harder we try to relax, the more tense we become. The more we strive to enter Flow, the further away it seems.

In our self-improvement culture, we are experts at turning everything — even surrender — into a project.

But The Fool is not a project.

Dancing Instead of Driving

The Fool state is not about giving up responsibility. It is not about sitting on the couch waiting for destiny to knock.

It is not about “surrendering your will” in some dramatic spiritual gesture.

It is about remembering.

Remembering that we were born playful. Born curious. Born in rhythm with the world.

The Fool doesn’t run the Universe.

He dances with it.

When we return to that original ease — relaxed, alert, a little amused at our own smallness in a very large cosmos — something remarkable happens.

Life softens.

Doors open.

Wind blows newspapers at our feet.

We stop trying to force magic — and we discover that it was already in motion.

The Fool smiles because he knows a secret:

The cliff isn’t always a cliff.

Sometimes it’s just the next step into the Flow.

If you were to reduce all of that to a single affirmation, it would be simple:

Be in the Flow.

And then — gently — stop trying so hard to do even that.

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The Top Ten Tarot Cards That Indicate You’re Stuck

A concise, Tarot-based guide to the ten cards that most often indicate feeling stuck, stalled, or unable to move forward — and what each one reveals about the deeper source of that stuckness.

Being “stuck” in Tarot rarely means something is broken or hopeless. It usually means energy is stalled, attention is misdirected, or a transition is incomplete. These cards point to places where movement is paused — and where a shift is quietly waiting to happen.

Here are the ten cards that most often signal that kind of stuckness.

1. The Hanged Man

Stuck because of suspension or waiting.

This card indicates a pause imposed by timing, perspective, or the need for surrender. Progress isn’t possible yet because something deeper is still rearranging.

2. Eight of Swords

Stuck because of limiting beliefs or mental loops.

You feel trapped, restricted, or powerless — but the restriction is largely internal. The situation may not be as closed as it feels.

3. Two of Swords

Stuck because of indecision or avoidance.

Movement is blocked by a refusal to choose, usually because neither option feels safe or pleasant.

4. Four of Cups

Stuck because of emotional disengagement.

Nothing feels interesting or meaningful enough to respond to. Opportunities may exist, but the heart isn’t open to them yet.

5. Ten of Wands

Stuck because of overload or exhaustion.

You’re carrying too much. Forward motion is technically possible, but not sustainable in the current state.

6. Five of Cups

Stuck because of grief or fixation on loss.

Attention is anchored in what’s gone wrong, making it hard to see what remains or what could still grow.

7. Judgment (Reversed)

Stuck because of self-doubt or fear of stepping into a new identity.

The call to change is present, but something inside is resisting answering it.

8. Wheel of Fortune (Reversed)

Stuck because of repeating patterns or feeling caught in cycles.

Life feels like it’s looping instead of evolving. This often points to unconscious habits or unresolved lessons.

9. Nine of Swords

Stuck because of anxiety, rumination, or worry.

The mind is so busy anticipating problems that it can’t access solutions or rest.

10. Five of Pentacles

Stuck because of a mindset of lack or survival.

Fear around resources, support, or worthiness makes it difficult to imagine improvement or receive help.

A Note on “Stuckness” in Tarot

In Tarot, being stuck is rarely a punishment or a failure. It’s usually a sign that:

• something internal needs to shift before something external can move,

• a lesson is still integrating,

• or attention needs to be redirected.

These cards don’t say “nothing will ever change.”

They say: this is the part of the story where motion pauses and meaning is being formed.

That’s often where the most important change begins.

And if you’re wondering when you’re going to get unstuck, then check out my other post:  The Top Ten Tarot Cards Indicating Something is About to Change.

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Full Moon in Cancer: Tarot-Friendly Rituals for Emotional Release, Inner Safety, and Soul-Level Nourishment

A gentle Tarot-inspired guide to the Full Moon in Cancer, offering simple practices for emotional release, self-nurturing, and reconnecting with inner safety.

This Full Moon in Cancer invites us to turn inward — away from external goals and future plans — and toward the quieter question of emotional truth. In this post, we explore how Cancer energy supports healing, belonging, and coming home to yourself.

Tomorrow’s Full Moon in Cancer is not loud or dramatic — it’s deeply feeling.

Cancer energy is intuitive, tender, protective, and emotionally wise. It’s less about doing more and more about listening more deeply.

Instead of asking, “What’s next?” this Moon asks:

“What do I need right now to feel safe, held, and whole?”

If you’ve been feeling emotionally tired, overextended, or a little disconnected from yourself, this is a beautiful Full Moon to work with. Below are simple, Tarot-friendly practices (no complicated rituals required) that align with Cancer themes: emotional release, self-nurturing, inner belonging, and gentle healing.

1. The Queen of Cups — Listening to Your Emotional Truth

Theme: Emotional awareness, compassion, and self-empathy.

Practice:

Sit quietly with the Queen of Cups (or imagine her presence if you don’t have the card). Let yourself drop out of thinking and into feeling.

Ask gently:

  • What emotion has been trying to get my attention lately?
  • What have I been feeling, but not fully acknowledging?

Let whatever arises be okay. This is not a problem-solving moment — it’s a witnessing moment.

Intention:

“I honor my emotional truth without judgment.”

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2. The Moon — Releasing Old Emotional Patterns

Theme: The unconscious, emotional cycles, and what’s ready to be released.

Cancer is deeply tied to memory and emotional habit. The Full Moon is a natural time for letting go.

Practice:

Write down anything you’re ready to release, especially emotional patterns such as:

  • over-caretaking,
  • emotional self-abandonment,
  • guilt,
  • or old hurts that still echo.

You might phrase them as:

“I release the belief that…”

“I release the habit of…”

“I release the emotional weight of…”

Safely tear up or discard the paper as a symbolic release.

Intention:

“I release what no longer supports my emotional well-being.”

3. The Empress — Nourishing the Inner Self

Theme: Nurturing, care, and emotional abundance.

Cancer and The Empress share a deep resonance: both are about emotional nourishment and inner safety.

Practice:

Do one small, loving thing purely for yourself:

  • take a warm bath,
  • drink tea slowly,
  • wrap up in a blanket,
  • cook something comforting,
  • sit near water, or
  • rest without guilt.

Treat this as sacred — not indulgent.

Intention:

“I am worthy of care, comfort, and gentleness.”

4. The Four of Pentacles (Reversed) — Softening Emotional Defenses

Theme: Letting go of emotional guarding and control.

Sometimes Cancer energy protects by closing. This practice invites softening rather than hardening.

Practice:

Notice where you’ve been emotionally holding tight:

  • withholding vulnerability,
  • staying guarded,
  • keeping yourself small or contained.

Ask:

What would it feel like to soften here — even just a little?

You don’t have to open to others — opening to yourself is enough.

Intention:

“I allow myself to soften into safety.”

5. The Star — Reconnecting to Emotional Hope

Theme: Gentle healing, emotional renewal, and quiet faith.

The Full Moon can stir emotions — The Star reminds us that tenderness itself is healing.

Practice:

Sit quietly and place a hand over your heart or belly. Breathe slowly.

Ask:

What would emotional peace feel like for me right now?

What does healing look like in this season of my life?

Let the answers be felt, not forced.

Intention:

“I trust in gentle healing and quiet renewal.”

Closing Reflection

The Full Moon in Cancer reminds us that strength isn’t only found in movement and achievement — it’s found in presence, feeling, and care.

This is a Moon for:

  • honoring your sensitivity,
  • listening to your emotional body,
  • releasing old emotional weight,
  • and remembering that you are allowed to need comfort.

You don’t have to fix yourself under this Moon.

You only have to be kind to yourself.

And that, in itself, is powerful magic.

2026: A New Cycle Begins — Welcome to a Universal 1 Year

We’ve just completed a cycle of endings and stepped into a year of new beginnings. This post looks at 2026 as a Universal 1 Year, what it means energetically and symbolically, and how to align with the quiet power of starting anew.

As we step into 2026, many people in Tarot, astrology, and esoteric circles are talking about one simple but powerful idea: 2026 is a Universal 1 Year.
Which means we are collectively beginning a brand‑new nine‑year cycle.

So what does that actually mean? And why does it feel like such a big energetic shift?

Let’s explore.

 What Is a Universal Year?

In numerology, each calendar year carries a collective or Universal vibration. It’s calculated by adding the digits of the year together and reducing them to a single number.

For 2026:
2 + 0 + 2 + 6 = 10 → 1 + 0 = 1

So 2026 = a Universal 1 Year.

And the year we just completed:

2025:
2 + 0 + 2 + 5 = 9

Which means we’ve just finished a Universal 9 Year — the final stage of a nine‑year cycle.

The 1–9 Cycle at a Glance

The Universal Years move through a repeating 1–9 pattern, each with its own archetypal meaning:

YearArchetypeTheme
1The SeedBeginnings, identity, new direction
2The MirrorRelationship, reflection, polarity
3The ChildExpression, creativity, joy
4The BuilderStructure, work, foundations
5The RebelChange, disruption, freedom
6The CaretakerResponsibility, healing, home
7The MysticInner work, truth‑seeking
8The RulerPower, manifestation, money
9The ElderCompletion, release, harvest

A 9 year completes a story.
A 1 year begins a new one.

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What We Just Came Through: The Universal 9 Year

Universal 9 Years are not light or easy. They are about:

  • Endings and closures
  • Letting go of identities, relationships, or structures that no longer fit
  • Grief, composting, forgiveness, and release

A 9 year doesn’t just end things — it dissolves them. It clears space.

That’s why many people experienced 2025 as heavy, tiring, emotionally clarifying, or strangely emptying.

Something had to finish.

What’s Beginning Now: The Universal 1 Year

A Universal 1 Year is the opposite energy.

It is:

  • New identity
  • New direction
  • New seeds
  • New courage

But it is not loud or triumphant.

A 1 year is fragile, raw, and tender. It’s the match being struck. The first step onto a new path. The moment of saying:

“This is who I am becoming.”

It’s less about immediate success and more about choosing a direction.

 Symbolically Speaking

Esoterically:

  • 9 is Saturnian — time, karma, endings, harvest, limits
  • 1 is Solar — identity, will, creative fire

So this transition marks a shift from:

Saturn’s scythe The Sun’s spark

From completion into creation.

 Tarot Reflections

If we were to translate this into Tarot language:

  • The 9 Year corresponds to archetypes like The Hermit, Death, The World — inner truth, endings, integration.
  • The 1 Year corresponds to The Magician — the moment when possibility becomes intention.

Not the end of the journey — but the choosing of it.

How to Work With a Universal 1 Year

This is not the year to rush.

It is the year to:

  • Name what you want to begin
  • Claim new identity gently
  • Experiment without needing mastery
  • Allow yourself to be a beginner again

This is the year to plant seeds, not demand fruit.

 In Closing

We have crossed a threshold.

The old cycle is complete. The ground has been cleared. And now — something new is possible again.

May this year be kind to your beginnings.
May you listen for what is quietly trying to be born through you.
And may you walk your new path with patience, courage, and trust.

Happy New Year.

Seven Lessons the Tarot Can Teach About Surviving the Holidays

Feeling overwhelmed by the holiday season? The Tarot has a surprising amount of wisdom — and humor — to offer.From The Fool’s fresh start to The World’s end-of-year perspective, these cards remind us that the holidays don’t have to be perfect to be meaningful.

A little humor, a little magic, and just enough perspective will get you through the Holiday Haze.

1. The Fool — You’re Allowed to Start Fresh

Every holiday season is a reset button.

Don’t carry last year’s stress into this year’s festivities.

Don’t walk off of emotional cliffs at family dinners.

Leap lightly… but maybe look down for gift-wrapping paper on the floor.

2. The Magician — Use the Tools You Actually Have

Trying to make a perfect holiday with imperfect resources?

The Magician whispers: Use what’s already on the table.

Don’t overspend now and stress later. 

Aim for gifts that are magical, not expensive.

3. The Lovers — Choose Peace, Not Drama

The holidays tend to bring opinions.

And relatives.

And opinions from relatives.

The Lovers reminds you: choose connection, not combat… or at least choose silence and pie.

If one of your loved ones says something absolutely outrageous, remember that you can just put a piece of pie in your mouth and smile.  Add whipped cream to make it an extra sweet conversation.

4. The Seven of Cups — Beware of Overcommitment

Shopping! Baking! Parties! Rituals! Volunteering! Travel!

The Seven of Cups says: You cannot say yes to all seven.

Pick the cup with the least glitter and the most sanity.

You don’t have to be all things to all people – just be the you that people love.

5. The Nine of Swords — Anxiety Lies

That nagging feeling that everything will go wrong?

It’s just the Nine of Swords doing its nightly stand-up routine.

Thank it for its service… and then ignore it.

Don’t just make it a holiday – make it a vacation from worry.

6. The King of Pentacles — Treat Yourself Like a Honored Guest

Warm food, soft blankets, comfortable socks —

This is not indulgence, this is holiday self-care strategy.

Just look at all the things you’ve done for other people!  Don’t you deserve a little pampering, too?

The King of Pentacles approves.

7. The World — You Made It Through Another Year

Pause. Breathe. Celebrate the cycle completing.

On the Winter Solstice, the solar year will end.  Take the time to reflect, to congratulate yourself for another trip around the sun. 

Give yourself credit for all the chapters you survived this year — and all of the growth that went along with that.

Bonus Holiday survival secret:

Lower expectations. Raise kindness. Wear stretchy pants.

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The Top Ten Tarot Cards Indicating Conflict

A quick, insightful guide to the ten Tarot cards that most often signal conflict—from chaotic energy and power struggles to hidden tension and emotional fallout. This post explains what each card means and how to navigate challenging situations with clarity and confidence.

There are days when Tarot feels like a warm hug…

…and days when it slides a little warning across the table and whispers,

“Brace yourself.”

Conflict is part of life, part of growth, and definitely part of the Tarot.

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Whether it’s inner tension, relationship friction, or someone else’s chaos spilling into your lane, some cards show up to say:

“Something here needs attention.”

Here are the top ten Tarot cards that most strongly signal conflict — and what each one really means beneath the surface. If you’d like to download this list as a PDF file that you can add to your Tarot notebook, click here.

1. Five of Wands – The Classic Chaos Card

If conflict had a mascot, this would be it.

The Five of Wands shows:

– competition

– ego clashes

– mixed agendas

– flailing energy everywhere

It’s not necessarily destructive — but it is noisy.

Message: This isn’t war… it’s everyone talking at once. Calm the room.

2. Five of Swords – A Battle Nobody Really Wins

This is the energy of:

– arguing to be right

– unhealthy victories

– someone taking more than their share

– hurt feelings afterward

Message: Winning at all costs comes with a bill. Choose integrity.

3. Seven of Wands – Defend Your Ground

This is conflict from the outside:

– critics

– competition

– pressure

– feeling outnumbered

But the card says you can stand firm.

Message: Don’t fold. You’re stronger than the opposition.

4. The Tower – Major Disruption

This isn’t a small disagreement — it’s a smackdown from the universe.

Think:

– sudden revelations

– arguments that break things open

– emotional earthquakes

Message: The old structure needed to fall. Liberation follows.

5. The Five of Cups – Emotional Fallout

Not a conflict card on its face, but it often shows up after one:

– regret

– grief

– disappointment

– unresolved conversations

Message: You’re grieving what was lost. Healing begins when you turn around.

6. The Devil – Power Struggles

This card signals:

– manipulation

– obsession

– toxic dynamics

– control games

– addictive patterns in relationships

Message: This conflict has a hook. Break the chain, not each other.

7. The Knight of Swords – Rushing Into Battle

He is smart, fast, determined…

…and doesn’t always think things through.

Shows:

– heated arguments

– impulsive reactions

– someone charging ahead without listening

Message: Slow down before your mouth outruns your wisdom.

8. The Two of Swords – Silent Conflict

Not all conflict is loud.

This card is conflict frozen:

– denial

– avoidance

– stalemates

– tension beneath the surface

Message: Peace requires a decision. Open your eyes and choose.

9. The Seven of Swords – Sneaky Energy

Not direct conflict — but conflict waiting to happen.

Signals:

– deception

– half-truths

– secret plans

– someone acting behind the scenes

Message: If something feels “off,” it probably is. Trust your intuition.

10. The Ten of Wands – Overwhelm and Burnout

This appears when conflict comes from:

– taking on too much

– carrying other people’s problems

– no boundaries

– pressure that builds until you snap

Message: Put down what isn’t yours. You’re not meant to carry it all.

Final Thoughts: Conflict Isn’t Always the Enemy

Conflict in Tarot isn’t punishment — it’s information.

The cards don’t show conflict to scare you…

They show it to help you:

– redirect

– set boundaries

– speak truth

– release what’s toxic

Because once conflict is acknowledged, transformation can finally begin.